Episode 37

How to Become the Woman You’ve Always Wanted to Be

Published on: 19th June, 2025

Welcome back to The S.O.F.T. Method™ Podcast, in this week’s episode, we’re diving into a feel-good, soul-anchoring topic: how to become the woman you’ve always wanted to be, not by hustling or over-functioning, but by gently shifting how you think, move, and show up each day.

If you’ve ever seen her, that dream version of you who feels grounded, radiant, magnetic, and free. Wondering how to close the gap between who you are and who you’re becoming… this episode is your permission slip to start now. 🌸

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

  • Why you should start with her energy, not just her income or lifestyle
  • How small daily habits shape your identity
  • My current night routine that helps me feel like her
  • A bold story of saying yes to a big music festival and facing my fear of crowds
  • The 3 R’s: Romanticize, Ritualize, Realize—your tools to embody her now
  • A reminder that your glow-up doesn’t have to be loud—it just has to be true
  • Plus, a special invitation to explore something I created just for this season of your life

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💖 Journal Prompt from this Episode:


What does living like her look like in the middle of an ordinary week?

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If this episode gave you an “aha!” moment or a soft nudge to realign with your next level, I’d love to hear from you.


📸 Screenshot and tag me @deandrajalisa with your biggest takeaway or the habit you’re going to start this week.

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About the Podcast

The S.O.F.T. Method Podcast
The S.O.F.T. Method™ Podcast is your sanctuary for self-worth, overflow, feminine embodiment, and trust. Hosted by DeAndra Jalisa, multi-passionate entrepreneur, creative coach, and soft life strategist! This show helps ambitious women unlearn the hustle and embody a softer, more sustainable path to success.

Each episode blends soulful storytelling, emotional empowerment, and practical strategies to help you stop over-functioning and start aligning with what truly feels good in your body, your brand, and your becoming. Whether you're building a business, healing from burnout, or reclaiming your feminine power, you’ll find truth, tenderness, and transformation here.

This isn’t just a podcast, it’s a permission slip to soften into the life you were meant to lead.

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DeAndra Crismon


DeAndra Jalisa Crismon is the founder of Party Shop Avenue. A bespoke balloon design company located in Los Angeles, California. DeAndra has been in the event industry for almost 10 years. She was a wedding planner and event designer who wanted to create something unique for the industry.

Which gave birth to Party Shop Avenue in 2017, she started posting her beautiful creations and her designs started to spread the internet like wildfire.

DeAndra has been able to work with some notable brands and influencers throughout her career. Clients like, Guess, Boohoo, Fabletics, Netflix, Fashion Nova, Mastros Franchise, Ispy, Colourpop, Sivan Ayla, Jessi Malay, Shayla Mitchell, Draymond Green, and many more. DeAndra had one of the biggest jobs of her career back in 2018 when she was flown out to New York to showcase her designs with Ipsy for Ispy Creator Day. Not to mention her designs were featured on Good Morning America the same week.

Now DeAndra is still persevering in the industry but is now mentoring aspiring creatives on how to grow successful creative businesses.